This book addresses  attachment issues and analyzes the dependencies we construct in our attachment styles.  Constructed gender roles determine our perceptions of dependence and independence attitudes.  Issues of secret loyalties are addressed and analyzed through the book.
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Could envy be a secret yearning?  Should envy and rivalry only be lived in destructively? Can competition turn into a motivation for improvement? And can envy become a source of inspiration?
This book addresses  the destructive facets of envy and rivalry while at the same time exploring their endeavoring and inspirational facets.  The book discusses the psychological theories and concepts around envy and competition, the developmental and familial influences, and personal reasons.  It particularly underlines the differences in gender roles in the feeling and use and misuse of those forceful emotions.  Acquired social habits as much as conscious and unconscious defences of these strong emotions are explored in order to make them more understandable and manageable.
The author argues that instead of leading to instinctive destructiveness, the energy created by those forceful emotions could be transformed into personal development.  A road map is proposed for such a positive change.
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This book addresses  attachment issues and analyzes the dependencies we construct in our attachment styles.  Constructed gender roles determine our perceptions of dependence and independence attitudes.  Issues of secret loyalties are addressed and analyzed through the book.
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Could envy actually point to a secret yearning? Are envy and competition experienced only through destructiveness? Could competition turn into thriving for betterness and can envy become a source of inspiration?
This book discussesthe endeavoring and inspirational facets of envy and competition along with their destructive expressions.  It discusses the psychological concepts, personal dynamics, attributed gender roles in the experience and attitudes of envy and competitiveness, while discussing the conscious and unconscious defences of those strong emotions.
The author argues that the energy created by envy and competition can be transformed, instead of destructiveness, into personal development while she proposes a road map for this transformative outcome.

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Anger and rage are destructive and consuming emotions, not only harassing the person but damaging, at the same time, their relationships and surroundings.  Attributed gender roles play an important difference in the use, expression and impact of these forceful emotions.  Anger and rage are experienced differently by men and women: in our society,  a man’s expression of anger is regarded as forceful and “masculine,” thus it is socially encouraged; whereas, a woman openly expressing her anger is considered as losing her femininity; she is attributed with humiliating connotations.  Generally women tend to internalize their anger, mostly directing it to themselves or to their children.  Unexpressed emotions tend to accumulate in a destructive pool, and either they turn into depression or they explode in the most unexpected moments, destroyiing the person’s inner world as well as close relationships.  
This book concentrates on the different forms and reasons of anger and rage,  our learned gender roles in their expression, the many ways of expressing anger and rage, while exploring how these destructive emotions could be transformed into productive energy, sincere communication and personal change.
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…and as Cinderella was running away, her shoe slipped off.  The next day, the Prince started to search for the young lady whose foot would fit in the shoe.  All the young ladies in that kingdom tried to reshape their feet for the sake of fitting in the shoe…
Well, since that day, women try hard to fit their feet in the moulds that patriarchy has designed for them while they believe that by abiding by its rules, they will become their man’s “princess”!   Meanwhile their feet ache, they limp, turn depressive but they firmly believe that they are the sole responsibles for this situation, never questioning the validity of the “shoe” (mould)… 
And men search for that woman who will fit her foot (herself) into the “shoe” (or the mould in his dreams) without ever asking himself whether a woman can be happy, peaceful, real and understanding when she ‘limps’ and ‘her feet ache constantly’…
And both are unaware of the shared pleasure when life is lived “barefoot”…

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